(Ugh side confession tho: I rmember exhibiting that exact same attitude and behavior when I was a late teenager/young adult and still wayy in the closet about being queer. We all make mistakes and I certainly did here, but if you ever did make this same mistake I did… - perhaps saying things like, "well I'm a gurlx! It doesn't count " - it is now time to remember that your dancer/provider/specialist is a skilled professional hired for their time, insight, and experience that you're currently enjoying and benefiting from, regardless of how you personally prefer to be penetrated. So transform into that fine-ass, grown-ass person/man/womxn/mxn/magical GodDexx you are who pays and tips all sex workers for their time and mad skills. For xxxtra fine bonus points, dress smart and sharp while doing it. We LOVE people who look great and tip well.